Living and Chilling while making big moves!!!! #sister #student #lover #Jesusdisciple
Honestly, at this point, success just looks like getting to the office on time after hitting the gym at 6 a.m. Sure, I could come up with something profound that ties back to my values, priorities, and big-picture goals, but with everything I have going on, what really matters right now is simple: show up … More Staying Aflot
Some days, I just need a 30-minute nap. On other days, I dream of $ 100,000, an all-expenses-paid vacation to the Maldives, and a chauffeur. It’s all about balance. Today is the last Sunday of September 2025, and I can’t help but laugh at how much can change in a single year. I also struggle … More Naps, Vacations, and Faith: Finding Balance in 2025”
A few years ago, while completing my internship for a master’s program in Clinical Mental Health, the Executive Director of the agency called a meeting with the interns. He began by sharing the agency’s accomplishments and reflecting on how far they had come since opening 40 years earlier. When the floor opened for questions, I … More Do Not Get Comfortable
“Does a breakup get easier over time?” That’s the question people keep asking me lately. Honestly, I don’t have a straightforward or comforting answer. Who can say how long a heart will ache for someone, even after the relationship has ended? Love doesn’t always fade just because the title is gone. It lingers, it echoes; … More No Closure, Just Chaos
That’s a great question! Why can’t it be both? I enjoy going with the flow, but I also prefer to have a loose outline. Spontaneity is excellent, especially when there is some preparation behind it. As a woman, and a Black woman at that, my top priority in navigating the world is always safety, even … More Spontaneity with a Side of Caution
J’ai longtemps hésité avant de publier ceci, car cela peut sembler un peu fou. Mais si vous êtes encore là, à suivre ce voyage avec moi, plus rien ne devrait vraiment vous surprendre ! Alors voilà… Comment se remet-on de quelqu’un avec qui on n’a jamais été en couple ? On m’a posé cette question récemment, pour … More Obsession ou Désir Inachevé?
If you’re in your early thirties or nearing that age, can you share whether your relatives are unusually obsessed with your love life? Because let me tell you, the moment I step into any gatherings, after someone comments on my fluctuating weight (as if that’s their business), the very next question is: “So… are you … More So Obsessed with Our Love Lives, why?
While I don’t have one specific answer, I do know that denim is definitely out of the question! I’d be in full sensory overload! It’s a tough call since I live in a region with all four seasons, so the outfit would need to work year-round. If I had to choose, I’d go with something … More Gold, Grey, and a Splash of Scarf: The Ultimate Uniform”
Without a doubt, it’s trying to manage other people’s feelings and emotions. It’s draining, and honestly, it’s a full-time job I never signed up for. That’s why I’ve been working on setting and sticking to my boundaries. Most of the time, what I really want to say is, ‘Please get out of my face with that nonsense.’ … More “What’s the biggest way I waste time every day?
Mine would be: Being me isn’t a phase. It’s a whole movement. Catch up. Authenticity isn’t just a vibe, it’s a way of life. Living in alignment with who you are, while staying considerate of others, is the real flex. No more shrinking. No more pretending. Just truth, presence, and power.
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