I’ve mastered the art of ignoring people, and removing toxic ones. If someone’s core values revolve around hurting others, I’ve learned that letting them go is not just healthy, it’s essential. In today’s climate, boundaries aren’t optional; they’re survival. Now, I’d like to tap into my creative side a little more. I’ve never been great … More From Boundaries to Braids….maybe.
J’ai longtemps hésité avant de publier ceci, car cela peut sembler un peu fou. Mais si vous êtes encore là, à suivre ce voyage avec moi, plus rien ne devrait vraiment vous surprendre ! Alors voilà… Comment se remet-on de quelqu’un avec qui on n’a jamais été en couple ? On m’a posé cette question récemment, pour … More Obsession ou Désir Inachevé?
While I don’t have one specific answer, I do know that denim is definitely out of the question! I’d be in full sensory overload! It’s a tough call since I live in a region with all four seasons, so the outfit would need to work year-round. If I had to choose, I’d go with something … More Gold, Grey, and a Splash of Scarf: The Ultimate Uniform”
Without a doubt, it’s trying to manage other people’s feelings and emotions. It’s draining, and honestly, it’s a full-time job I never signed up for. That’s why I’ve been working on setting and sticking to my boundaries. Most of the time, what I really want to say is, ‘Please get out of my face with that nonsense.’ … More “What’s the biggest way I waste time every day?
I just have to say it out loud: being an adult is tough! Who signed me up for this? Where do I go to opt out? From where I’m standing, this whole “independent, self-sufficient, thriving adult” thing feels like a scam. On the outside, I may have it all together. My skin is moisturized, my … More In the trenches, literally!
Did you miss me? Because I missed you all something fierce! I’ve struggled to write lately; there were so many thoughts swirling in my mind, but not enough energy to put them down. Meanwhile, I’m trying to avoid all the heavy and negative topics around me, which is challenging given my line of work, as … More Surviving the Chaos… Together!
As I’ve shared in previous posts, I’m really struggling with grief right now. This has been the most challenging experience I’ve ever faced, and I don’t expect things to improve for some time. While I’m not trying to rush my healing process and don’t have any deadlines in mind for feeling better, I am making … More Not my App!!!! Save my App!!
When it’s freezing like it is these days, my favorite thing to say is, “At least we’re not in Canada!” I can’t imagine what it must be like to live or go to work in -40 degree weather for months on end. It’s absolutely insane just thinking about it. On top of that, I’ve been … More Making the List.
This will be quite the rant, so I hope you’ll bear with me as I share my thoughts. I find myself perplexed by many people’s obsession with dating those whose values are entirely opposite to their own. Why is there this relentless pursuit of something different when your ideal partner—someone who aligns with your beliefs … More Be my Guest
Boundaries! I grew up in an environment where saying “no” was often seen as disrespectful or inconsiderate of others’ situations. With a family heavily involved in service, it felt like we always tackled one project after another, even when I was exhausted. I became tired and even resentful of this way of living. Then, I … More Boundaries Man!
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