On Evolving, Adulthood, and the State of Things I find it funny when people think they have someone completely figured out. How? With the way people keep changing? I mean, some things remain constant, of course. But expecting someone to be the exact same person years later seems a little unrealistic, no? Especially someone who … More Life Lately: Growth, Groceries, and a Grieving World
But How Does This Benefit Me? Historically, men have been socialized and conditioned into systems that primarily benefit them. And you know what? Players will play. I watched The Odyssey a few weeks ago, and one thing remained incredibly consistent throughout the entire story: men’s decision-making process. First beneficiary in line? Them. Individually. Because what exactly was … More The Frontal Lobe Package
I kept starting this blog over the past few weeks and never finishing it. I kept wondering why. Maybe because some days I feel low-key burnt out, and other days I am simply trying to keep myself afloat. This is my last residency year as a Licensed Associate before reaching the holy grail of full … More Healing. Working. Existing. Repeating.
I’m at a point where I’m easily irritated by foolishness, loud and unnecessary commentary, and the relentless expectations people project onto others. You want to be married with eight children by age 40? That’s okay, but have you actually thought it through? Have you mapped out how you will be there for each child emotionally, … More Deep Breaths and Expense Sheets
On New Year’s Day, which also happens to be my birthday, I celebrated my special day surrounded by family. I indulged joyfully, without a single regret, fully aware that the gym would be waiting for me next week. I could practically hear my trainer’s voice in the background, but honestly? It was worth every bite. … More No New Me, Just More of Me
