This is a very short post to let you know I haven’t forgotten about this blog. I’ve been busy trying to stay alive and well in the current climate. How is it on your side of the world? Are you taking care of yourself? Are you doing your best every day? Friends, that’s all we … More Just some Random Thoughts, or are they?
I honestly can’t recall the last time I truly enjoyed myself; I’ve been under the weather with this persistent cold dragging me down since October. The cold season is usually my weakness, leaving me drained and uninspired. Even though it tends to damper my social calendar, I consciously try to keep plans alive. Recently, I … More Girls Night Out
This year has been surprisingly quiet; honestly, I couldn’t be happier about it. My life was always a whirlwind of activity for a long time, juggling the demands of completing my education, working, and managing family obligations. It often felt overwhelming, leaving little room for relaxation or introspection. However, after graduating earlier this year, I … More Rested
Enabling toxic behavior from close friends or family members is a common problem that many of us face. Such individuals can be a professional burden, causing unnecessary drama, lying, and slandering others … More Enabling Entourage
Scrolling through social media as one does, and saw some interesting videos about friends going on trips together and coming back, enemies. Going back on Twitter and seeing a trend about it helped me understand why that could happen. I am happy to share with y’all since summer is coming, and you might be planning … More Better in the Sun!
I’ve taken a long break from the blog and quite frankly I needed to! I don’t ever want this writing space to become a burden or feeling pressure to post. However, I missed sharing my thoughts and feelings with you all! Let’s catch up a little bit, shall we? I celebrated a birthday! Big one! … More Peaceful State
A viral video on TikTok of a woman complaining about millennials and gen z. You’re probably okayyyyyy; what’s new? But hear me out; she stated the reason why so many of us are in therapy is that we soft. We’re popping anxiety pills and can’t get our lives together. How convenient, right? Meanwhile, all of … More Soft Generation or Trauma Fighter?
There are so many thoughts in my head these days! It’s working 24//7! The world is tense, anyway, from my lenses. Am I staying in my corner, trying not to get involved in drama? Kind of! Whether it is online or with people around me. However, good girls don’t make history! So, let’s get into … More Struggling immigrant
To which extent should we support our friend? If there are limits, what are the healthy ones? Should our friends expect us to have their back in any situation automatically, or is there room for discussion? Should these convos be private, or do we address them immediately, no matter how and when? Maybe we should … More Millennial Friendship
2022 is out here breaking couples, man! That’s rough! You have to look for red flags, hidden misogyny, pick me, now inflation too! Stay safe all of you! This week on blown off, a couple broke up because the girl had to move back to her parents’ house since her rent got raised by $700 … More Inflation, the new side piece?
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